Boundaries - Where You End and I Begin: How to Recognize and Set Healthy Boundaries
Obviously, too much distance in a relationship leads to a cooling of romantic interest. Surprisingly, enmeshment can do the same. Here’s why. Enmeshment, remember, may feel close, but it isn’t. Enmeshment means someone’s individuality is being squashed. An enmeshed person is not known.
— Anne Katherine. Boundaries Where You End And I Begin (Kindle Locations 675-677).